Thursday, July 29, 2010

A few of my favorite things...Now, found together!

I love metrics.  I love blogging.  Now Blogger.com is letting me have the two together!  Blogger has now provided a "Stats" tab on my "Dashboard" to see my "views" and "hits" metrics.  I have resisted the temptation to install third party software on my blog to see what kind of traffic I have (if any - I *never* assume).  Now, I can get a little insight on my stats by day, week, month, and alltime...and it's really cool!

While there is lots I don't know from these stats (don't worry lurkers and followers, I can't see you), here are some of the things I do know....

Street Style: H Street NE

Kickin' on H Street NE!  Some fab street style sense (for all ages and stages).

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Tabletop


I [HEART] Carolyn Hax (on casual dating)

Carolyn Hax is so wise....I really enjoyed this particular column because of the way the writer expressed his feelings about his girlfriend (fair enough, and quite clear); the way Hax talked about how to navigate that line and the premise it's built upon; and because I'm casually dating (or trying to anyway).

Some excerpts are below....and the full link to the column ("He's not that into her; how clear should he make that?") is here.
Dear Carolyn:  I am having fun with my girlfriend but am well aware she's not marriage material for me. She says she is fine with dating casually for now. I know girls sometimes say this and don't mean it, so what's my responsibility here? To keep reminding her that it's not headed anywhere? That seems like such a buzzkill.  Anonymous
Why is she good enough to date but not good enough to marry?  Carolyn:
She's just . . .

Saturday, July 24, 2010

I [HEART] my new iPhone!

I never thought a phone could make me so happy.  Seriously, after waiting for almost two years to indulge in an iPhone, my iPhone 4 arrived on Tuesday.  At first, I was scared - what if I was disappointed?  What if the hype was just hype?  It is very expensive after all.  But after the first day of tentatively getting to know each other, I've gone from having a crush from afar to full fledged love AND lust.

I was a tiny bit disappointed by the look of the upgrade. They say it's smaller and slimmer than the previous iPhone, but I find it's edges a bit hard, sharp, and well...edgy.  Its predecessor, the iPhone 3G, is smooth and rounded, like a river stone in your pocket (or purse), and I'd liked that zen sensibility.    But I am not that superficial, and nothing is perfect, so I have squinted my 40-ear old eyes a bit  for a more forgiving and softening focus, and you know what?,  it's really quite handsome.  In fact, so sexy that...

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Capital BikeShare

Woohoo!  Lots of proposed Capital BikeShare stations near my house and on my routes....near my metro station, G's school, EMarket, bars on 8th Street and H Street, Frager's hardware, Lincoln Park, Nationals Park, and supermarket.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Ground-breaking gamechanger for women's health

At the International AIDS Conference in Vienna promising results were shared from a clinical trial of a microbicide to be used by women for HIV prevention.  This is great news indeed.  Since the beginning of the epidemic, one of the frustrating things has been that a woman has no way to protect herself from HIV infection without depending on her partner in some way.  All three methods of HIV prevention require some degree of cooperation from her guy:
  • condom use - ultimately it's his call; 
  • mutual monogamy between two HIV-negative partners  - again, she can be as monogamous as she wants, but it won't necessarily protect her if he is not - and vice versa, of course, though sadly the monogamy deck is stacked against her in many cultures and countries where there is high HIV prevalence; and 
  • abstinence  - well, we all know how that goes! - not only is it exceedingly challenging between two people with any sort of chemistry and hormones, it's really a non-starter for many woman (and of course, in the case of rape, coerced and otherwise involuntary sex).  In places like Africa, where HIV prevalence is high, partner communication is low, and pressure for married couples to make babies is strong, the notion of refusing sex or insisting on condom use, even if she perhaps suspects he may be infected or at risk, in a marriage setting just won't fly
So where does that leave a woman in Johannesburg where HIV infection is 18% (or anywhere else for that matter)?  Up the creek without a paddle in terms of taking control of her health and life, with any sort of viable option to protect herself from HIV infection.  An effective microbicide could change that.

Clinical trials for microbicides (vaginal gels that can be applied to neutralize the virus and protect from infection) have been going on for years have had mixed results, at best. The news of this study is ground-breaking and could change the HIV prevention landscape.   In this particular clinical trial in South Africa, prevention of transmission os not 100% failsafe, only significantly reduced.  Researchers want to improve the efficacy, continue with additional trials, and if viable, get this thing to market ASAP.

Fabulous news! (Sometimes I miss practicing public health).

Vienna: Hollman-Beletage Hotel

observatrice exhibitioniste voyeuse

Drawing the bath, she walked naked along the perimeter of the room tending to things.  The curtains of the large windows were open to the anonymous city outside.  This quiet, dead-end street had few passers-by, and housed a small cafe with about five occupied tables this evening and a hotel across the street.  Most of those rooms were quiet - either dark or curtains drawn with hints of light around the edges, sometimes bluish - hinting at the residents inside and their televisions.

One room directly across, and just slightly down a level had some movement in it.  A couple had entered from their evening out, and were settling in for the night.  The bedside table light was on and the curtains were open, as they each went about readying for sleep.  The man was in his early 50's, dark hair, glasses - definitely European, as evidenced by the shape of his glasses; his casual, but polished, style; and graceful, distinguished ageing.  As the wife disappeared into the bathroom, he removed his pants and sweater, leaving on a white button-down shirt and dark briefs.  He sat on the edge of the bed - his side - and looked out the window.

Aware she could be seen, the bather approached the window, and looked outside into the night towards the sky, as if contemplating tomorrow's weather.  The windowsill came to about the level of her hips baring her upper torso - breasts most prominently on display, hair pulled back in a loose twist, with strands  astray falling about her face, the curve of her hips and ass.  She turned towards the closet just beside the window and opened it, her body still visible in profile.  She pretended to look for something, perhaps tomorrow's clothes - she bent down towards the shoes, stretched upwards towards the tee-shirt sitting on the closet shelf.  She turned back toward the window, and they looked straight at each other.

She left the window, busied herself again about the room, turned off the bathwater - it could wait -and considered her next move.  She adjusted the lighting in the room to create balance of both shadows and visibility, and walked back towards the window.  Again, he looked out as her figure darkened the window frame.  She glanced towards him and pretended not to notice, as she again contemplated the sky, then the cafe down below, and the closet.  He remained looking out right towards her window, but also made no acknowledgment of her presence.  Unable to linger any longer, and not sure what to do next, she busied herself about the room - arranging the papers and magazines, pouring a glass of water.

A few moments later, she returned to her windowside perch.  He was lying in bed, now wearing a charcoal grey tee, reading a book, the sheets were pulled across his thighs.  His wife was now beside him, alike, except in a light blue tee, also reading a book.  They mirrored each other in their bedside reading.  The lone bather looked out, and saw him look away from his book and towards her window.  She wondered if - she hoped- he was sufficiently distracted to perhaps kiss his wife good night and run his hand along her thigh - an advance - and then she could watch their coupling.  The bather and the reader did their rounds a few more times - she leaving her window, returning, he glancing away from his book towards her - but both he and his wife never left their reading positions, and eventually the game of the bather and the handsome stranger ran its course.

The bather was disappointed he hadn't touched his wife.  Or perhaps, if their life was how she grimly imagined, they couldn't remember the last time they made love, even vacation sex, and the wife would have been surprised by his move or rebuffed him.  Or perhaps he was not prepared with his Viagra.  Had she been more bold, or even slightly more practiced at nude city-night people-watching (perhaps even next time), the bather might have lingered longer and more purposefully at the window, leaning in to look up the street toward the corner, or even ran her hand along her sides, and absentmindedly touched her breasts, even traced her nipples - as if he had caught her in a private reverie - as if.  Perhaps, if this were true Penthouse letters, she would have been brasher still - directly acknowledging him, letting her hands wander more deliberately, or even signaled to him to make a move on his wife, so she could watch for all of their excitement.  But not that either, and likely not that ever.

Following her bath, in which her mind wandered to the possibilities and pondered the thoughts of the man across the street, she, too, put on her bed clothes - a navy tee, and loose cotton pants, no underwear, and slept with the light sheet twisted around her body.  She awoke in the early morning light, the curtains were still open, and looked across the street.  They were both sleeping.  A few minutes later, he was reading and she had left the bed.  In the broad daylight, her presence at the window did not change anything like it had in the night lights.  She readied herself for the day, and when she looked out the window again before heading for breakfast, they were both gone.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Magnetic Poetry Set for the UN

I've been in Vienna for one of those big international meetings.  In this case, it's the International AIDS Conference that takes place every 2 years (next one in DC in 2012).  To be more precise, I've been at a pre-conference symposium of about 450 people, as well as some smaller meetings.  The global conference has about 20,000 people and starts today - which is why I'm skipping town and heading home.  I enjoy my work on most days, and I used to do even more of this global hob-nobbing, but I grew weary and had other interests in life besides moving the gears of international bureaucracy, so I've moved in a slightly different direction.  Still when I'm back in the game, I get jazzed to be among my people talking about our stuff.  Increasingly though, I'm a little glazed and slightly dazed at these things. As an outsider, I find myself slightly bemused in our meetings, where we speak alot and say nothing, so I've decided to develop a magnetic poetry set for attending global meetings.  String together any of the below words and phrases, and you can participate, too!

inclusion     participation     participatory    comprehensive    inform    disseminate    society    community    community-based    healthcare systems     access     quality services      reduction    elimination    virtual elimination   eradicate    alleviate    women and children    safety and security    society    reach     researchers and practitioners     create     develop    support     strengthen    most vulnerable     affirm    re-affirm    commit    re-commit    progress    adequate progress   appropriate     process     measure    civil society     contribute    empower   reach    bringing together    chronicle and document   joint-efforts    gatekeepers    entry points   advance   rigor   robust evidence    knowledge gap    action   efforts   initiative     challenges and opportunities     stakeholders    partnerships   public-private partnerships    outcomes    results     resources   goals   2012   2015   programmes    
                    

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Wien Tour

I have little time to explore and observe on these work trips.  In fact, today, Sunday, I had a meeting from 10am until noon, and later on I have a reception at 6pm.  In between though, I took a quickie self-guided  tour of Vienna to get a better sense of its feel and flavor.  Admittedly, I was pretty efficient, this was definitely the 10-minute overview, but I got a decent sense of some of the city, and a sneak preview for my next visit someday when I come back on a real vacation with my lover.

It started with the U-bahn, a very good subway system with some of my favorite public transit amenities - clear signage; good, conceptual maps; the timing of the next train; and good subway car layout, with priority seats marked  for elderly, handicapped, and exhausted, swollen pregnant women.

I headed towards my meeting at the Vienna International Centre (the VIC, as I now affectionately call it) in the newest part of the city which houses the United Nations complex.  Quite honestly, it is horrid.  The buildings are pretty "Bloc-ish," and there is very little sidewalk-scape or civic life.  Large expanses of concrete pose as sweeping plazas.  This quarter must have been designed by a UN sub-committee.

(Tour more of Vienna... wacky architecture, Klimpt's Kiss, a streetside freak show, Mozart's sex life, and the perfect Viennese cafe!!... after the link.)

Friday, July 16, 2010

Capital BikeShare Launching this Fall

Woohoo!  The Capital BikeShare program is launching this fall!  As I've discussed in this blog before, city bike share programs are the coolest for quick destination rides getting about the neighborhood.  Just like Paris Velib!  While SmartBike, run by marketing firm Clear Channel, made DC hip just for trying, the 150 bikes in 15 stations were just plain measly.  And SmarkBike, whose program will end with the new one's launch, doesn't even compare to the 1000 bikes at 100 stations throughout DC of the new program.  Now we're we're talking Paris cool*.  And London cool, too!  Barclay's Cycle Hire program launches there on July 30.

*Actually I read in one commentary on the program that to be comparable to Velib in density of bikeshares per capita, DC would need about 5400 bikes.  I also read in sleuthing this that another 1000 bikes for program expansion are planned in a matching grant proposal.  Exciting!

From my sub-conscious

Last night's dream involved a camping and barbecue party on a beach bluff with a summer cottage.  My dream boyfriend* was fishing for dinner from a nearby creek, and then prepared the whole fish beautifully with some seasoning for grilling, lovingly presenting it to me.  I smiled, touched by his generous efforts, but my softened heart also sunk for I knew something he did not know.  Amongst the many people in our group, my dream former boyfriend** was also there, and they were about to encounter each other.  We all did our best to act like nothing was up between or among any party in the love triangle, but everyone was extremely uncomfortable.

Alone, I skipped over some dunes to find a little beach cove, and saw a family of whales breaching in the open sea beyond. Later, I magically swam with two baby whales in the little intlet that opened out from our private beach. Back on the bluff, stars in the night sky, people had broken into small groups laughing and chatting in lowered voices  or lovers leaning one against the other whispering to each other and into the darkness.  I couldn't find dream boyfriend, and knew he had gone to heal himself.  Dream former boyfriend had left.  I felt both happy (content swimming and being outside on a beautiful evening, taking care of myself)  and horrible, because I knew I had contributed to hurt feelings and tension.  I knew, in fact, not only that dream former boyfriend would be there, but in fact, I had invited both men without sharing in advance what each was headed for.  The sub-conscious of my sub-conscious even knew that I had played the whole thing for my own ego, and to show each what he had or did not have.  I awoke from the dream feeling guilty, but aware, and knowing the way forward.

Later, I dozed again in the early hours of the morning, and fell back into the dream.  This time, I found dream boyfriend at his home, hurt and withdrawn.  I begged forgiveness, a genuine lump in my throat, tears in my eyes.  "I'm so sorry," I said, holding forth my arms for both comfort and forgiveness.  He hesitated, which I deserved, but then came towards me for which I was relieved and grateful, and knew I would not take for granted.  We kissed, and sighed.  I knew this is where I wanted to be.

* an amalgam of several men I've known and cared for
** no one I recognized

ETA - There were two parts of this dream that stood out for me.  First, the more obvious one of the relationship dynamics, my role in manipulating them, and the sincere realization, almost revelation, that that was not what I wanted to do.  The second very poignant element of the dream was the joy of being outside and keeping things in their most natural state - catching, seasoning and grilling fish, the bluff, the dunes, the screened in porch of a summer cottage, a light breeze, swimming alone in a small, private cove. Those things were especially vivid and salient, and brought me an almost extreme measure of contentment that very much carried throughout the dream.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Vienna: Hotel room (and an ice bath)

My hotel room is awesome - huge with 15-foot ceilings and two humongous windows overlooking the street. It is completely multifunctional for quality sleep, work, bathing, and chilling out , with lovely well-considered amenities.  It is spare, but smart.  Euro Chic all the way.  Its modern and minimalist design enchants me. But while I'm charmed by some of the smart design details, at the same time I can find this design aesthetic impractical (once it's actually functioning, all the clean lines are lost) and uncomfortable (a little welcoming warmth and softness goes a long way for me).

In front of the windows, two small leather chairs stand on either side of a table-cum-fridge.  The platform bed faces the two windows.  It has crisp white sheets and a fluffy white duvet, punctuated by orange and red textured throw pillows.  Its brown-leather upholstered backboard on one side serves as a long counter running along the other side, incorporating a sink and a desk.  Along another wall, a long alcove houses a sleek armoire, a stand-alone tub on a platform open to the room, and a literal water closet holding the toilet.

It has been a long day - actually a blend of three long days since my departure from home.  Today's 2-hour flight from London to Vienna was much, much more grueling than anticipated - altogether a 7-hour journey by taxi, train, and delayed plane, arriving at my hotel just after midnight.  My ultimate arrival in this room - where I will spend the next four nights - is a welcome relief.  But, also way damn hot.  It seems Vienna has been balmy these last days, and it is 80 degrees and humid even at this late hour.  The a/c is doing its best, but not really working.

First things first. I put on the CD of (Austrian) music provided in the CD player.   I crack open a (Austrian) beer from the minibar, open some (Austrian) peanuts, and cut up an apple.  And when my simple dinner is finished, I indulge in the chocolate truffle left by my bedside.  I'm satisfied, and starting to feel my travel-induced grouchy edge begin to smooth out.

Then, still uncomfortably hot, I strip naked to unpack my bags.  It's my habit to settle into a hotel room even for a night.  Hanging up clothes, charging my gadgets on the desk, laying my toothbrush and toothpaste on the sink, arranging my Vogue magazine (and The Economist) on the little table where I enjoyed  the peanuts and beer, placing my book on the nightstand.  The room is not cooling down, however, and I can feel sweat droplets running down my neck and back, one drips onto my foot.

Unpacked, but still sweaty and uncomfortable, I ponder my next move.  The bath beckons, and I run an icy one - all cold! - complete with the bubblebath the hotel has thoughtfully provided.  A cold bubble bath - this might be my first.  I turn off all the lights in the room, and brace myself for the chill as I alight the tub's platform.  The first dip is a bit of a shock, but soon, I'm enjoying the refreshing cool bath, the dark room, and being able to see out the window to the night street. At long last, I relax.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

The Hill is Home

The Hill is Home is a wonderful neighborhood blog about my little community.  After 8 years living here, I'm so pleased how my urban village it is organically developing.  It is diverse, but there is a common thread of an envisioned community that exists for young and dull, old an hip, families and singles  And all its fabulous-ness is generating some Hill Buzz.

Friday, July 9, 2010

I [HEART] cities (and David Byrne)

A Talking Head Dreams of a Perfect City  I stumbled upon this great article by David Byrne (of all people?) in the Wall Street Journal (of all places?).  It talks about the best elements of cities  - size, density, scale, mixed use, security, with a little danger and chaos,  and a little attitude all its own.  I like the way he references elements of each with references to his favorite cities, and how these blend to make the perfect city.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Grassroots Soccer

Excellent slideshow by photographer Jessica Hilltout on the grassroots soccer played throughout Africa on makeshift fields with soccer balls fashioned of rubber bands, stockings, and paper, and string.

Here's some amusing trivia from the accompanying article on Hilltrout's work.

The most oddly soulful of Ms. Hilltout’s images are of objects: the homemade balls fashioned by children from plastic bags, old socks and rags, tied up with string or strips of tree bark. Some children inflated condoms — commonplace and free on a continent beset by AIDS — wrapped them in cloth to make them heavy, then in plastic bags to seal them and finally bound them in twine. These ingenious, improvised balls bounce like real ones for a few days before the air escapes.
Hurray for Africa's ingenuity!

Revelations

It is my ideal to have a home-cooked sit-down family meal made of fresh, local food, plenty of veggies, and fish 2-3 times per week.

It is strategic when I do menu-planning, grocery shop weekly according to plan, prepare a make-ahead meal on Sunday for later in the week, and put the Farmer's Market on my calendar at work for every Thursday fromMay through November.

It is practical when I get the family fed, hopefully a reasonably healthy home-rprepared meal several times a week, with a fair amount of fruits and vegetables (often from Safeway), with little reliance eon junk food and take-out.  

The truth is I'm a working, single mom, with a full-time demanding job.  Sometimes the menus are not so well-planned.  Sometimes the weekly shopping is late or incomplete.  Sometimes I'm tired, and the kitchen is hot.  Sometimes the thing Dear Daughter wants to hear more than anything else  is, "Let's put on pj's, order pizza, and watch a video." (She is so thrilled, and this is a definite value trade over my ideal every once in a while).  Sometimes I need a treat and we go out for Mexican food, and I get a margarita. Every once in a while, we'll get an invitation to join another family at the pool on a Sunday and the make ahead meal is a no-go - another good value trade (and truth is that make-ahead meal doesn't get made all that often anyway). 

So what's my measurement of success?  I am certain to fail against my ideal.  It will never happen, and measuring myself against that is only obnoxious and demoralizing.  Against my strategic goals?  Well, certainly these help me strive for my ideal, and this gets accomplished some of the time.  But how did I do on a practical level?  Making the best of what life dealt that week?  Recognizing a good value trade even when it was in conflict to my ideal? On average,  did I - with my ideals in mind and strategies to realize them - make a healthy meal more often than not? On the balance does my family eat a good quality, balanced healthy diet?  Is takeout and junk food kept to a practical minimum?  I know when I'm slipping, and our takeout quotient is out of whack - it's usually externally driven.  Then back on track, back to plan, back to basics so I can succeed on a real-life level.


Wednesday, July 7, 2010

No subject

We're sorry.  La Nouvelle Observatrice is too hot, tired, uninspired, lazy, overextended, and overwhelmed (and underwhelmed, for that matter) to be her usual witty, brilliant, amazing, cool, fascinating self.  Please try again later.

Monday, July 5, 2010

What's left unsaid.

Louise filled the coffee pot with water, and measured out the coffee. One...two...three...she wasn't really counting; she stopped when it looked like enough. The empty wine bottle was on the counter from the night before. Recycle. There, the testament to the night was gone from their vision. "It's going to be a hot one. Ninety-five degrees." She turned toward the fridge, opened it up, and stared inside. "Do you want jam on your toast? I have blackberry." She closed the fridge again. Louise turned back toward the sink. She busied herself washing out the pan - running the water, watching the suds bubble over the rim, scrubbing the tiny black fleck of cooked-on dirt barely the size of her pinky nail with a green scouring pad. He looked on. "He must think I'm really diligent about pot-washing," she thought. She looked up at him, smiled, and looked away. "Do you know this song?  My sister loves it."  \She tried looking up again, and this time held his gaze for a moment longer. "I might go get a new filter for my a/c today.  \I don't know when the last time I replaced it was," she said, as if this were actually an interesting prospect for the day. "Coffee's ready. Do you take milk?," she said busying herself once again with two mugs, and two spoons, and the re-arranging of the fridge shelf to reach the milk. Her fingers touched his when she handed him the warm mug. They both lingered for a second, and then moved on.

The music on the stereo turned to something uptempo, a little too much for a lazy, unscripted morning.   She winced to herself.   She hadn't liked the silence either; she felt like she had to fill it.  But the music felt off, too - the wrong mood.  She wondered what the right mood music would be for the morning after.   Louise's thoughts resounded through her head like in a vast echo chamber. They were small, random, and probably inconsequential in the grand scheme of things, but they took up a lot of space, and they were hard to dodge.  Like a hundred superballs in a racquetball court.  They were loud and active - searching for an escape route.  But she had sealed off all openings, and held them in check.  Her thoughts clashed anyway, each one in direct conflict to the other.  They ricocheted off the walls in her head - and collided with each other with bounces and rebounds.  What was the point of letting any one of them out if the next one would contradict it anyway?

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Spanish-Inspired Summer Snacks



Inspired by Nigella Express, part of a longer, light dinner menu.


Parrano cheese with Fig Jam on Walnut Bread

Chick Pea and Spinach Salad
infused with cumin and sherry

Almonds

Cherries

Cava
chilled and sparkling


Friday, July 2, 2010

Top World Cup Players on Facebook, Day by Day

This makes for an interesting diversion - combine metrics, World Cup, Facebook, and what do you get?  Maybe nothing.  It seems sort of meaningless.  Or maybe it is a snapshot of where the world's hearts and minds are at a particular moment in time.  Or maybe what I like about it, if anything, is that data can be analyzed pretty easily in the digital age- where our very connected living allows for  a data set to be collected in real time and then be interpreted for something or other.
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